I am going to begin this article by making a statement that may be impertinent to some, and that is that we all, without exception, whether consciously or unconsciously, like to be recognized.

Likewise, the need for recognition is present in every facet of our lives, whether in the family, friendship and, above all, work spheres.

However, the word “Recognition” comes from the Latin “recognoscere,” which means to recognize or re-examine something. According to the Royal Spanish Academy (RAE), it is the act of identifying, acknowledging the truth, and also showing gratitude to a person for their effort or achievement.

In that sense, there are different types of recognition, such as medical, technological, personal, and work-related.

Now, I will focus on a brief story of personal and professional recognition of a friend, and even a spiritual companion, whom I have known for 39 years and who is always selflessly present and attentive in the various companies where he has worked, helping his colleagues and suppliers. He is also concerned about his friends and family.

This friend is always there with a phone call or, now more modern, via WhatsApp voice or text message.

Due to different situations in life, I have met people in the professional sphere who know this friend and they have always without exception told me: he is a great guy, he is a gentleman.

The truth is, I’ve never asked my friend why or what he does it for constantly.

I’m sure he does it because it’s always been in his nature; he learned it and it comes naturally to him effortlessly. It’s like when you learn to ride a bike, and no matter how many years go by, it eventually becomes second nature.

Therefore, to use a football term, I’ll leave the ball rolling and share some questions to reflect on so as not to fall into the trap:

1. Do I generally do good things because I believe it’s the right thing to do?
2. Do I do a good deed and immediately expect recognition or a reward?
3. What do I do to stay grounded (humble) when someone congratulates, rewards, or recognizes me for an action I’ve taken?

Along those lines, I’ve included a couple of phrases that fit perfectly:

• “Recognition feeds the ego, but service feeds the soul.” – Rafael Zavala.
• “Children have never been very good at listening to their elders, but they have never failed to imitate them.” – James Baldwin.

Finally, it should be mentioned that recognition is not inherently bad, but rather a consequence of our actions in seeking the best possible exercise of our will.

Come on, let’s both do our part and remember: Always row hard, against the current and out to sea!