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Bishop Munilla: “We have replaced God’s gaze with the gaze of others”

Being a True Rebel: The Interview That Changes Your Perspective on Life with Bishop José Ignacio Munilla

Bishop Munilla: “We have replaced God’s gaze with the gaze of others”

Don’t settle for what the world offers. Discover why true rebellion lies in resisting worldliness and letting God write your story. A profound, sincere, and hopeful dialogue with one of Spain’s most beloved bishops.

Imagine a podcast recorded in the Dominican Friars’ convent in San Chinero (Madrid). Two “rebels”—Father Ignacio Amorós and Friar Marcos—conversing with  Bishop José Ignacio Munilla of Orihuela-Alicante, an undisputed authority for thousands who evangelize online. The result is a conversation that leaves no one indifferent: a spiritual autobiography, an accurate diagnosis of our times, and an urgent call to holiness as the only true path to happiness.

What does it mean to be a rebel according to Munilla?

From the very first minute, the bishop makes it clear by quoting  Romans 12:2 : “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”

Being rebellious isn’t just mindless teenage rebellion. It’s a  mature rebellion : refusing to let the world ensnare you with its invisible tentacles of worldliness. It’s a radical commitment to making your life exactly what God has envisioned for you, not what society, social media, or trends push you to be.

“I want to be guided by God’s plan, not dragged along,” he states forcefully. This conscious resistance to the spirit of the world is true freedom.

A childhood marked by family and education

Munilla was born in San Sebastián in 1961. He grew up in a close-knit family, with parents who taught him to read reality with a critical and ethical eye. He recalls small but profound anecdotes: his father interrupting his childhood joy at a Western film to remind him that “those Indians also have a mom and dad.” Or how, at the height of ETA’s terrorist activity in the Basque Country, his parents inoculated him against ideological “false rebellion.”

Along with his brother (also a priest), he experienced an adolescence in which they were a minority in a huge school, but they had the support of a good chaplain and the proximity of contemplative monasteries. This combination of a strong family, a priestly role model, and an atmosphere of prayer was the fertile ground where his vocation took root.

The moment of the “blank check”

At 15, during a retreat, young José Ignacio didn’t know what pledge to write on the paper they were to burn in a brazier. In the end, he signed only his name:  José Ignacio . He handed it in blank and burned it.

“Sir, I’ll sign it and you can write whatever you want.”

That night, on his way home, he was struck by a powerful intuition: Jesus was asking him to become a priest. It was a shock that shattered all his preconceived notions (including the romantic dreams typical of his age), but at the same time brought an inexplicable peace and joy.

His parents listened to him seriously and asked him to be completely consistent: “If God is calling you, be a priest, whatever the consequences.” That answer was decisive. Later, the letters providentially exchanged with his brother and the welcome he received from Cardinal Marcelo González in Toledo sealed his path.

On the day of his ordination (1986) he renewed the covenant: “Lord, from now on I have no right to doubt your call. I give you my life. I will go wherever you send me.”

The years as a parish priest in Zumárraga: heroin, AIDS, and concrete mercy

Assigned as a young parish priest in Zumárraga for 20 years, Munilla came face to face with a harsh reality he hadn’t studied in books: the heroin epidemic that was destroying families. Desperate mothers knocked on the parish door. He, who had never even seen a joint, ended up accompanying more than 110 young people in the Proyecto Hombre program, visiting homes, suffering alongside the families, and, when AIDS arrived, helping many to “die well.”

He learned in the trenches that success in this life is not measured by avoiding suffering, but by  dying in God’s grace . Truth, uncompromising mercy, and genuine (not vain) hope were his tools. Some of those stories still resonate with him.

Diagnosis of our time: from relativism to dictatorship and emotional wounds

Munilla clearly outlines the cultural journey we have experienced:

  • First, the  dictatorship of relativism  (Benedict XVI): it is no longer allowed for each person to think what they want; “political correctness” censors.
  • Then came the profound anthropological crisis: man no longer knows who he is.
  • From the proud Prometheus of modernism we have moved to the  postmodern Narcissus  : constantly looking at oneself in the mirror of the networks, comparing, envying, becoming fragile.

The result is  massive emotional wounds  : dysfunctional families, narcissism, anxiety, addiction to the dopamine of immediate gratification (reels, Amazon, likes), inability to postpone pleasure, and a self-esteem built on the gaze of others instead of on the gaze of God.

“Our biggest problem on social media is that we are replacing the presence of God with the gaze of others.”

The big trap: not feeling good enough

Many young people (and not so young) confess: “I don’t feel valued, I’m not worth it, I’ve thought about taking my own life.” Munilla has seen this in confessions and retreats. The solution isn’t cheap self-help, but recovering one’s  filial identity : “I am what I am to God.”

A powerful anecdote: a young woman who was self-conscious about her nose, retouched photos with filters, and ended up trapped in her own bubble of suffering. At a retreat, after an encounter with Christ and hearing testimonies, she found liberation through laughter and tears: “Jesus was fed up with me caring so much about my nose!”

Fraternity, witness, and asking for help are key. The “mute” demon isolates; the Church unites and heals.

Healing wounds: forgiveness, mercy and the Sacred Heart

In the face of wounds (one’s own or those received), Munilla proposes:

  1. Pray for the one who hurt us (even if it’s difficult at first).
  2. Surrender our wounds to God and refuse to let them define us.
  3. Abandon victimhood (a toxic form of narcissism).
  4. Approaching the  Sacrament of Reconciliation , which is not merely a “stain remover,” but  a healing and uplifting grace , forgives you and offers you a deeper friendship with Christ. It is being “born again” from the Heart of Jesus.

For Munilla, devotion to the Sacred Heart is the “kerygma of the kerygma”:  He loved us first . Trusting in that love precedes our merits.

Holiness and happiness: the same reality seen from two angles

Here comes one of the most luminous moments of the podcast:

“When you understand that there are not two paths—human happiness or holiness—but only one, that day your worldview changes.”

God wants you to be holy  because  He wants you to be happy. And He wants you to be happy  because  He wants you to be holy. The saints were the happiest people in the world. Integrating the human and the divine, the natural and the supernatural, is the key.

Final message for Spain and for you

Spain is reminded of its Marian heart: “Where there is no mother, there is chaos.” Return to the Immaculate Conception, let yourself be cared for by Her.

To each one of you:  Pay attention . God has a plan for you and will reveal it to you step by step. Sign the blank check. Renew your calling daily. Do not be afraid. Trust.

And above all:  God loves you and wants you to be happy .

This interview is not just a beautiful testimony. It’s a map for navigating a hyper-accelerated, wounded world addicted to instant gratification. Munilla speaks with authority because he has lived what he preaches: in the parish, in the fight against drugs, in the episcopate, and on social media.

If something has moved you, don’t just leave it at a “like.” Share the episode. Ask for help if you need it. And above all, dare to be a  true rebel : someone who refuses to be absorbed by this world because they’ve decided their life will be whatever God intends it to be.

I trust in you.  That’s the motto. That’s the stance.

Are you ready?

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