25 August, 2026

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Lame, Wrinkled, and Cross-Eyed

Regarding the Encounter with Christ and the Fragility of Our Dialogue with God

Lame, Wrinkled, and Cross-Eyed

In Book IX of the  Iliad , Phoenix tries to persuade Achilles to calm his anger and come to the aid of the Achaeans. To do so, he uses an unforgettable image:

“Prayers are daughters of great Zeus, and though lame, wrinkled, and cross-eyed, they take care to follow the goddess Error.”  — Homer,  The Iliad

The comparison is surprising. We are used to thinking of prayer as an immaculate exercise of elevation, a moment of crystalline purity where the soul ascends without blemish towards eternity.

However, the wise old Homer brings us crashing back to earth. Prayers are indeed children of Zeus; they possess a divine origin and a sublime dignity. But in their journey through the world, they are lame, wrinkled, and cross-eyed. They limp through the mud of our own human misery.

From classical soil to the Gospel

This ancient insight resonates powerfully when we examine our own spiritual experience. As Pope Leo XIV reminded us in his Angelus address last Sunday, August 23, faith is not given to us all at once. We cannot be content with mere hearsay, platitudes, or turning faith into a simple habit. 

In response to Jesus’ crucial question to his disciples— “But what about you? Who do you say I am?” —the Pope encouraged us not to become trapped in our religious certainties. He reminded us that the question of the Lord arises in prayer, but also “when we are confronted with the wounds and needs of our brothers and sisters.” 

And yet… what is that relationship often like on our end? Humanly and spiritually, a complete disaster.

The beauty of an imperfect prayer

I don’t know about you, but that Homeric description perfectly captures how our prayers so often are. How often do we approach God with persistent distractions, accumulated fatigue, clumsy words, gnawing doubts, or selfish requests!

Our prayer is often  lame : it stumbles along, held back by our limitations. It is  wrinkled  by the furrows of daily worries. And it is  cross-eyed  because we find it difficult to look directly at the Master without turning our eyes to a thousand earthly vanities.

And, despite being that human disaster, those faltering prayers achieve the impossible: they pull us out of prostration.

Just as the daughters of Zeus marched after the goddess Error to restore order, our humble prayers—however fragile—manage to pierce the heavens. Not through some supposedly perfect prayer technique, but because He who listens seeks not rhetorical elegance, but the naked sincerity of the heart that cries out.

From the self-satisfied Pharisee to the tax collector who beats his breast

This dynamic of fragility shines brightly in the Gospel, through the parable of the Pharisee and the tax collector who go up to the temple to pray.

The Pharisee is impeccable, rigid, and self-sufficient. He offers a prayer that is perfect in form, but hollow and sterile: he recites his merits, compares himself to others, and boasts of his righteousness. It is a prayer that walks upright, but that neither rises above itself nor touches the ground.

At the other extreme is the tax collector. His prayer is the living embodiment of those daughters of Zeus: he arrives limping, burdened with guilt, wrinkled by the weight of his miseries, and with his gaze lowered, not daring to raise his eyes. He beats his chest and stammers a clumsy but sincere plea:  “Oh God, have mercy on me, for I am a sinner . “

That prayer, seemingly broken, is the one that descends justified. God does not seek glittering facades, but the stark truth of one who knows he is in need of mercy.

Beyond custom and cliché

Jesus constantly warns us against the temptation to turn faith into a routine and to shut ourselves off in our comfort zones. True prayer—the kind that springs from genuinely asking ourselves who the Lord is and what his Gospel asks of us in our daily lives—demands that we shake off our complacency.

When we dare to pray with our limps and wrinkles, without disguises or masks before God, the true encounter takes place. We don’t need to fabricate a false perfection to address the Creator. It is enough to present our weakness as a plea, like that tax collector in the corner of the temple.

Because, in the end, the most authentic prayers are not those that sound flawless on the lips of self-satisfied Pharisees. They are those that, limping and with averted gaze, cry out for light. And God, with his infinite patience, always comes to meet these wayward children of our fragile humanity.

Eloy Asenjo Carpintero

(Madrid, 1965) es Licenciado en Ciencias Físicas por la Universidad Autónoma de Madrid (1988) y docente de Enseñanzas Medias en las áreas de Matemáticas, Física e Informática. Con experiencia como consultor en e-learning e implantación de tecnologías educativas, actualmente imparte clases en el Colegio María Teresa de Alcobendas y desarrolla recursos didácticos interactivos para la enseñanza de las ciencias en Secundaria y Bachillerato.