24 April, 2026

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What takes away my joy?

Habits for living joyfully, according to positive psychology and with a lot of humor

What takes away my joy?

With a touch of humor and based on theories and studies in the field of positive psychology, lecturer and professor Víctor Küppers highlights six key points shared by people who live joyful lives, something that, in his opinion, is a matter of attitude.

– They decide to live joyfully. “Of course, these are people who have problems like everyone else, but they’ve made the decision to live life this way,” he claims. In his opinion, being joyful isn’t a gift or a blessing, but a choice:  “Life is much simpler, but we don’t realize the power of our choices.”

– They’re good people. This is another factor that all happy people display. “Everything in life is about human relationships, and people who know you value you for who you are, not for your English level. A resume is overrated,” he claims, while asserting that  “there’s no such thing as a good professional who’s a bad person.” “We need good people, but not in the ‘cheesy’ sense of the word.  We need honest, upright, and tolerant people who listen,” he adds.

– Being able to break out of the loop“Psychologists recommend putting things into perspective, that is, being aware that problems are just another part of human existence.”  In this sense, Küppers criticized our current use of social media, which has become a mirage of a perfect world that doesn’t exist. “If you’re having a problem, you have every right not to smile, of course. But there are problems and problems. The problem is that sometimes we don’t understand it until life suddenly forces us to put things into perspective,” he warned.

– Being able to take care of what’s important. In his opinion, we all know what’s truly important in this life, but we keep it in the background due to the hectic pace of life we’re subjected to. “We live thinking that the people we love most will always be there, and that’s not true.  We often realize what’s truly important only when it’s too late”, he stated.

– Get excited about everything you do. Without a doubt, another key shared by the happiest people, he explains, is that they are able to get excited about everything they do.

– Be grateful for everything. As Küppers explains, most people with a sense of ‘joie de vivre’ are very grateful.  “Your life is how you want to approach it; you choose at every moment, and this is the most important thing. If you follow these steps, over time you’ll realize that life becomes more exciting,” she concludes.

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Ideas para mejorar el mundo . Director: José Miguel Ponce . Profesor universitario e investigador en Marketing y Gestión de Servicios, con experiencia en cinco universidades públicas y privadas. Sevillano de origen, ha vivido en varias ciudades de España y actualmente reside en Sevilla. Apasionado por la educación, la comunicación y las relaciones humanas, considera la amistad y la empatía clave en su vida y enseñanza. Ha publicado investigaciones sobre Marketing, Calidad de Servicio y organizaciones sin ánimo de lucro. Humanista y optimista, promueve el agradecimiento y la coherencia como valores fundamentales.