{"id":148198,"date":"2025-11-28T17:41:36","date_gmt":"2025-11-28T16:41:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/exaudi.org\/?p=148198"},"modified":"2025-11-28T17:41:36","modified_gmt":"2025-11-28T16:41:36","slug":"accettare-difetti-e-limiti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/exaudi.org\/it\/accettare-difetti-e-limiti\/","title":{"rendered":"Accettare difetti e limiti"},"content":{"rendered":"<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-5b5214c elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"5b5214c\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-2291da6\" data-id=\"2291da6\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6f47866 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6f47866\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Una persona con difetti e limiti deve essere amata<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">senza obblighi:<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Bisogna innanzitutto accettarne i difetti e i limiti.<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-65e7a258 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"65e7a258\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-e32547a\" data-id=\"e32547a\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5ed6caec elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"5ed6caec\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-147886 alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/defectos-limitaciones-diferencias-6.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"680\" height=\"452\" srcset=\"https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/defectos-limitaciones-diferencias-6.png 680w, https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/defectos-limitaciones-diferencias-6-300x199.png 300w, https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/defectos-limitaciones-diferencias-6-360x240.png?crop=1 360w, https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/defectos-limitaciones-diferencias-6-500x332.png 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px\" \/><\/h2>\n<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Accettazione incondizionata<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-46b6c6cf elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"46b6c6cf\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-65fb02b8\" data-id=\"65fb02b8\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-42b98336 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"42b98336\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">In questo contesto,\u00a0 l&#8217;accettazione <\/span><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/zBdCQeNdWzQ\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">incondizionata\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> equivale a\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">incondizionato\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> e\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">incondizionabile<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> :<\/span><\/span><\/a><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> \u00a0niente pu\u00f2 cambiarla.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<h3><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Nel matrimonio<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Il rapporto con il coniuge e l&#8217;educazione dei figli devono essere\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">intrecciati\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> con l&#8217;amore: sono, in definitiva,\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">manifestazioni fondamentali\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">dell&#8217;amore.<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Pertanto,\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/glaKkKJkDjg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">i tre momenti o componenti dell&#8217;amore si verificano in entrambe le sfere:<\/span><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Conferma nell&#8217;essere: \u00e8 meraviglioso che tu esista!<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">La ricerca effettiva della realizzazione della persona amata: ti amo e voglio che tu sia felice e, quindi, buono.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">La resa di s\u00e9, attraverso la quale\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">affermo\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> la persona amata e provoco il suo sviluppo:<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<ul>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">\u00abMi metto pienamente al tuo servizio affinch\u00e9 tu possa raggiungere la meraviglia della perfezione a cui sei chiamata e che il mio amore ha scoperto in te\u00bb.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Nell&#8217;educazione dei bambini<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">L&#8217;educazione sembra pi\u00f9 legata al secondo elemento: chi ama veramente un&#8217;altra persona desidera che quella persona sia buona e felice.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Ma attenzione!: quel desiderio sar\u00e0 efficace solo se sar\u00e0 preceduto, accompagnato e come avvolto dall&#8217;accettazione incondizionata \u2013 incondizionata e senza condizioni \u2013 della persona che vogliamo aiutare, con tutti i suoi difetti e limiti.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Non \u00e8 possibile confermare l&#8217;essere che si ama \u2014amarlo veramente\u2014 se il desiderio del suo miglioramento arriva e cerca di imporsi\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><strong><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">troppo presto,\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/em><\/strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> per dirla con un tocco di metafora e ironia.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Fin dal primo momento e sempre \u2014amore incondizionato!\u2014 dobbiamo accettare e amare ogni bambino cos\u00ec com&#8217;\u00e8 veramente, oggi e adesso:<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<ul>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">con tutti i suoi\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">difetti e limiti,<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> \u00a0per quanto distruttivi possano sembrare&#8230; e in effetti lo sono.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0d2dfd7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"0d2dfd7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Amare qualcuno significa <\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">accettarlo incondizionatamente cos\u00ec com&#8217;\u00e8.<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-d03d1b4 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"d03d1b4\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-e98f62a\" data-id=\"e98f62a\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-68465ea elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"68465ea\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Amarli cos\u00ec come sono, qui e ora<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-fd568b8 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"fd568b8\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-d7c46f3\" data-id=\"d7c46f3\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-81d1075 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"81d1075\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-147890 alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Defectos-limitaciones-diferencias.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"804\" height=\"452\" srcset=\"https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Defectos-limitaciones-diferencias.png 804w, https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Defectos-limitaciones-diferencias-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Defectos-limitaciones-diferencias-770x433.png 770w, https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Defectos-limitaciones-diferencias-500x281.png 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 804px) 100vw, 804px\" \/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-5be34714 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"5be34714\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-a5aa20\" data-id=\"a5aa20\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-321d9b8b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"321d9b8b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Non prima della scadenza<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Se cerchiamo di far migliorare qualcuno\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">prima del tempo<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> , questa persona si sentir\u00e0 rifiutata, non amata, perch\u00e9 in realt\u00e0 non la amiamo\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">,<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> anche se sembra il contrario.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Di conseguenza, non saremo in grado di aiutarlo a svilupparsi.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Particolarmente applicabile con\u00a0 i bambini <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">ribelli<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> , che\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">ignorano<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> \u00a0noi e il resto della famiglia;<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">che sono sempre\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">contrari<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> ;<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">che vivono <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">\u00a0la loro\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> vita all&#8217;interno\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">della nostra<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> \u00a0casa!<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">che,\u00a0 <\/span><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">\u00a0con le loro azioni, <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">si rifiutano di studiare e lavorare\u2026<\/span><\/span><\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">\u00c8 esattamente cos\u00ec che dobbiamo amarli: non importa quanto ci feriscano! E proprio perch\u00e9\u00a0 ci <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">feriscano\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> di pi\u00f9.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<h3><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Senza accettare come buono ci\u00f2 che non lo \u00e8.<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">\u00c8 opportuno chiarire che ci\u00f2\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">non<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> \u00a0significa che approviamo il loro comportamento:<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Il rifiuto fermo, radicale e\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">sereno<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> della sua condotta pu\u00f2 e\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">deve<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> \u00a0coesistere con la piena accettazione di lui come persona, ancora pi\u00f9 radicale di quel rifiuto:<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">un&#8217;accettazione incondizionata che nulla dovrebbe condizionare.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-33e5ba3c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"33e5ba3c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Se ci aspettiamo che qualcuno migliori <\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">prima di averlo accettato incondizionatamente, <\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">quella persona si sentir\u00e0 rifiutata.<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-8a15293 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"8a15293\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-ce8c411\" data-id=\"ce8c411\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8f1f8d9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"8f1f8d9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Accettali senza riserve<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-91c8d18 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"91c8d18\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-28aa01c\" data-id=\"28aa01c\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8b399c6 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"8b399c6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Amarli come sono veramente<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Se nel nostro desiderio di aiutarli non accettiamo i nostri figli per come sono veramente, con tutti i loro dolorosi e laceranti difetti e limiti.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Se prima di tutto e &#8220;prima&#8221; di tutto cerchiamo di farli cambiare, difficilmente riusciremo ad aiutarli.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">In fondo, e anche se ci \u00e8 difficile ammetterlo, non vogliamo loro\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">,<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> \u00a0bens\u00ec il loro\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">alias migliorato,\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> in base alle nostre aspettative.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-3818573 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"3818573\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-0fbc342\" data-id=\"0fbc342\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-32355a0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"32355a0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-147894 alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/defectos-limitaciones-diferencias-1.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"812\" height=\"426\" srcset=\"https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/defectos-limitaciones-diferencias-1.png 812w, https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/defectos-limitaciones-diferencias-1-300x157.png 300w, https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/defectos-limitaciones-diferencias-1-770x404.png 770w, https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/defectos-limitaciones-diferencias-1-500x262.png 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 812px) 100vw, 812px\" \/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-385e411 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"385e411\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-5a853aa\" data-id=\"5a853aa\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-83c63fc elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"83c63fc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Un rifiuto inosservato<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Sentendosi rifiutati, si ritireranno in se stessi.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">E renderanno vano il nostro tentativo di raggiungerli, di illuminare la loro intelligenza, di muovere la loro volont\u00e0 e di aiutarli a essere persone migliori!<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Al contrario,\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/kU11h1SN8u8\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">il nostro amore incondizionato \u00e8 il miglior motore per il loro sviluppo:<\/span><\/span><\/a><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> \u00a0l&#8217;amore d\u00e0 le ali alla persona amata, permettendole e incoraggiandola a volare sempre pi\u00f9 in alto.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2539a3f elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2539a3f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">La persona che sa e si sente amata <\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">prova, proprio per questo, <\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">un profondo desiderio di miglioramento.<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-25041c3 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"25041c3\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-fb185d2\" data-id=\"fb185d2\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7dbe624 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"7dbe624\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">E aiuta a superare quei difetti e quelle limitazioni<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-5ea6585 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"5ea6585\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-30e0fae\" data-id=\"30e0fae\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d890f36 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"d890f36\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p><em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Una volta accettati, <\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">dobbiamo aiutare coloro che amiamo <\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">a superare i loro difetti e limiti, <\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">tenendo presente che, <\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">proprio perch\u00e9 sono difetti e limiti, <\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">sono molto difficili da superare.<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-2ca5f85 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"2ca5f85\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-8899fa6\" data-id=\"8899fa6\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-77e57fa elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"77e57fa\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Perdere e vincere<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-08f4477 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"08f4477\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-45a33d9\" data-id=\"45a33d9\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1cade07 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1cade07\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Perch\u00e9\u2026 perch\u00e9\u2026?<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">La domanda \u00e8 ovvia, ma forse non ce la siamo mai posta esplicitamente n\u00e9 abbiamo esplorato la sua risposta:<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Perch\u00e9, se \u00e8 pi\u00f9 che dimostrato che coltivare le qualit\u00e0 \u00e8 pi\u00f9 strategico ed efficace che correggere difetti e limiti \u2013 e la maggior parte di noi ne ha esperienza diretta \u2013 insistiamo nel concentrare quasi tutta la nostra attenzione su quest\u2019ultimo, sui difetti e sui limiti?<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">E questo vale sia per l&#8217;educazione dei nostri figli sia per il rapporto con il nostro coniuge.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<h3><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Tre possibili risposte<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<ol>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Oppure\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">non<\/span><\/span><\/strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> siamo \u00a0forse convinti che ci\u00f2 che ho appena ripetuto sia vero: che prestare attenzione alle qualit\u00e0 e coltivarle sia pi\u00f9 &#8220;redditizio&#8221; che criticare e correggere difetti e limiti?<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Oppure, se lo ammettiamo, non sappiamo cosa fare dei nostri difetti e dei nostri limiti, e questa ignoranza ci confonde?<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Oppure, anche quando siamo convinti e intuiamo la soluzione, non siamo in grado di\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">tollerare<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> \u00a0i difetti e i limiti degli altri?<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-90d937b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"90d937b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Perch\u00e9 insistiamo <\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">nel ricordare e correggere costantemente <\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">i difetti e i limiti dei nostri figli?<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-b9ca951 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"b9ca951\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-876dc9d\" data-id=\"876dc9d\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b0ea731 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"b0ea731\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Giocare ai perdenti<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-7ebf7c9c elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"7ebf7c9c\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-3df0e23c\" data-id=\"3df0e23c\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-42e63716 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"42e63716\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">E i difetti?<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">\u00c8 ovvio che, per loro stessa natura, difetti e limitazioni sono\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><strong><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">molto difficili da superare.<\/span><\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Pertanto, se mettiamo costantemente a confronto i nostri figli con i loro difetti e limiti, li condanniamo\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/j2Rk6fSJSnY\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">a un fallimento quasi continuo,<\/span><\/span><\/a><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> \u00a0con tutte le conseguenze che ne conseguono:<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">bassa autostima,<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">attriti con i suoi fratelli e con noi,<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">deterioramento dell&#8217;ambiente familiare,<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">problemi a scuola, con i compagni di classe e gli amici, ecc.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Allora perch\u00e9 lo facciamo?<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">I difetti dei nostri figli sono evidenti&#8230; o udibili&#8230; o nei loro vestiti&#8230; o nei mobili&#8230;<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Si\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">espandono\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> e si stabiliscono tutt&#8217;intorno a noi, lasciando pochissimo spazio libero.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Non c&#8217;\u00e8 bisogno di prestare molta attenzione per scoprirli.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">E poi, quando ci facciamo\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">gli affari nostri<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> , sono fastidiosi.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Li correggiamo, anche urlando, e pensiamo di fare bene, di educarli.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">E le qualit\u00e0?<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">E tuttavia non prestiamo alcuna attenzione alle qualit\u00e0.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Sto esagerando?<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Prova a fare un elenco, mentalmente o per iscritto, dei difetti e dei limiti di uno dei tuoi figli.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Pensa solo alle volte in cui negli ultimi dieci giorni hai detto qualcosa del tipo:<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">&#8220;Sei disordinato,&#8221;<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">&#8220;Pensa solo a te stesso,&#8221;<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">&#8220;Non puoi contare su di te per niente,&#8221;<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">&#8220;Non mi ascolti mai quando ti parlo,&#8221;<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">&#8220;Non mi dici mai cosa fai, con chi esci o dove vai.&#8221;<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Potresti fare un\u00a0 elenco <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">simmetrico<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> \u00a0delle qualit\u00e0:<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">con un nome proprio<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">o almeno con una descrizione relativamente dettagliata?<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">L&#8217;argomento &#8220;ma \u00e8 molto buono&#8221; non funziona per me, perch\u00e9 lo sono tutti,\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">di default<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> .<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Vengono\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">fuori dalla fabbrica<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> cos\u00ec .<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2dc74d8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2dc74d8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Conosciamo molto bene i difetti dei nostri figli, <\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">ma probabilmente ignoriamo i loro pregi.<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-57ec0a2 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"57ec0a2\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-afd4650\" data-id=\"afd4650\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ac8332a elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"ac8332a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-147897 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/defectos-limitaciones-diferencias-7.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"664\" height=\"442\" srcset=\"https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/defectos-limitaciones-diferencias-7.png 664w, https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/defectos-limitaciones-diferencias-7-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/defectos-limitaciones-diferencias-7-360x240.png?crop=1 360w, https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/defectos-limitaciones-diferencias-7-500x333.png 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 664px) 100vw, 664px\" \/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-8420dec elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"8420dec\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-0d5494f\" data-id=\"0d5494f\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-bd00846 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"bd00846\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Vincere, in tre passi\u2026 o quattro<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-5ca7cc1c elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"5ca7cc1c\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-3e122e28\" data-id=\"3e122e28\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-764bb9af elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"764bb9af\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">La soluzione<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Poi\u2026?<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Lasciatemi darvi un consiglio:<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Riunitevi con il vostro coniuge e scrivete un elenco delle qualit\u00e0 di ogni bambino, iniziando da quello pi\u00f9 difficile, quello che non sta mai fermo, tranquillo o silenzioso, quello che meno vi piace.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Successivamente, sfruttando la pratica acquisita, fai lo stesso con gli altri.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Chiedi al tuo coniuge di ricordarti queste qualit\u00e0 quando\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Erode-annienta-i-bambini<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> \u00a0sta per diventare il tuo eroe preferito e pensi che quel figlio o quella figlia sia irrecuperabile!<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">E ora la parte bella!<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ul>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Ancora una volta, in accordo con il tuo coniuge, organizza le dinamiche della casa in modo che ogni membro della famiglia, compresi voi due, abbia il maggior numero di opportunit\u00e0 per dare il meglio di s\u00e9, sviluppando le sue qualit\u00e0 migliori e pi\u00f9 spiccate.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Quando saranno cresciuti, lui o lei (e tu o il tuo coniuge) dovranno affrontare i propri difetti e limiti, ma anche la possibilit\u00e0 di successo.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Efficiente, ma esigente<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Tutto ci\u00f2 richiede molta dedizione, tempo e impegno?<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Certo, chi lo negherebbe! Aggiungerei che \u00e8 ancora pi\u00f9 grave di quanto pensi.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Ma non eravamo d&#8217;accordo che la famiglia fosse la cosa pi\u00f9 importante? Non eravamo d&#8217;accordo che fosse impossibile crescere un figlio senza dedicargli\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">tutto il tempo<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> \u00a0necessario, senza fretta e senza fretta?<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Pensi che l&#8217;idea che la famiglia venga prima di tutto sia solo teorica, qualcosa che\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">dobbiamo\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> dire, ma che non influenza la nostra vita?<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1662db0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1662db0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Conosci le qualit\u00e0 dei tuoi figli, <\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">chiedi al tuo coniuge di ricordartele <\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">e organizza la casa nel modo pi\u00f9 opportuno <\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">affinch\u00e9 possano svilupparsi.<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-64e0e48 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"64e0e48\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-26891d5\" data-id=\"26891d5\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8cb0a99 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"8cb0a99\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">&#8220;S\u00ec, ma con il mio coniuge&#8221;<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-d3187a6 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"d3187a6\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-076da6c\" data-id=\"076da6c\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-dd025a1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"dd025a1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Difetti e qualit\u00e0 del coniuge<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Tutto quanto detto sopra,\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">cambiare ci\u00f2 che deve essere cambiato\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> (e cercare\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">di non cambiarlo troppo<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> ) \u00e8 altrettanto efficace con il tuo coniuge.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Provatelo e vedrete voi stessi!<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Per ora, visto che non \u00e8 la nostra preoccupazione principale, mi limiter\u00f2 a copiare una striscia di\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Ugo Borghello,<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> \u00a0che mi aiuta da anni:<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Racconta una favola secondo cui il diavolo si aggirava nei quartieri per dividere e rovinare le famiglie.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Entrava in una casa fingendosi un pellegrino stanco e, mentre veniva servito, riusciva a far capire alla donna che il marito la trattava come una schiava, mentre lui rimaneva seduto tranquillamente a chiacchierare con l&#8217;ospite, o cose del genere.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">E cos\u00ec continu\u00f2 a fomentare la situazione, finch\u00e9 non riusc\u00ec a scatenare una discussione furiosa.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Difetti, no; pregi, s\u00ec<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Ma un giorno entr\u00f2 in una casa dove tutti i suoi tentativi fallirono.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Fu lui ad arrabbiarsi e, disperato, esclam\u00f2:<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">&#8220;Ma non discutete mai?&#8221;<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">\u201cNo, perch\u00e9 fin dal primo giorno abbiamo stretto un patto: ognuno deve concentrarsi solo sui propri difetti e sui pregi o sulle qualit\u00e0 del coniuge.\u201d<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Basta riflettere un po&#8217; sull&#8217;aneddoto per rendersi conto che chi si comporta in questo modo ha tutto da guadagnare.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-427f2f3 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"427f2f3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Ogni persona dovrebbe concentrarsi solo sui propri difetti <\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">e sui meriti o sulle qualit\u00e0 del coniuge.<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-ea8eb51 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"ea8eb51\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-9f02eba\" data-id=\"9f02eba\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-40a51c6 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"40a51c6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-147901 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/aceptar-los-defectos-y-limitaciones.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"754\" height=\"495\" srcset=\"https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/aceptar-los-defectos-y-limitaciones.png 754w, https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/aceptar-los-defectos-y-limitaciones-300x197.png 300w, https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/aceptar-los-defectos-y-limitaciones-500x328.png 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 754px) 100vw, 754px\" \/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-04e8013 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"04e8013\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-0949612\" data-id=\"0949612\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e226670 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e226670\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Concentratevi sui pregi, <\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">dimenticate i limiti e i difetti.<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-24dad53f elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"24dad53f\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-1c59d449\" data-id=\"1c59d449\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4149fd07 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4149fd07\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">(Continua)<\/span><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Tom\u00e1s Melendo, <\/span><\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Presidente di Edufamilia <\/span><\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.edufamilia.com\/\" rel=\"nofollow\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: 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