{"id":143483,"date":"2025-10-24T17:33:19","date_gmt":"2025-10-24T15:33:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/exaudi.org\/?p=143483"},"modified":"2025-10-24T17:33:19","modified_gmt":"2025-10-24T15:33:19","slug":"desiderare-il-vero-bene-del-proprio-figlio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/exaudi.org\/it\/desiderare-il-vero-bene-del-proprio-figlio\/","title":{"rendered":"Desiderare il vero bene del proprio figlio"},"content":{"rendered":"<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-20e8bbd elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"20e8bbd\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-64b10fb\" data-id=\"64b10fb\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9042e9a elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"9042e9a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Il vero bene del bambino: <\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">non solo il bene apparente, <\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">n\u00e9 il nostro bene, <\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">\u201cmascherato\u201d da lui.<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-cefec5a elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"cefec5a\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-26784ee\" data-id=\"26784ee\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e3e52f3 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e3e52f3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Coccolarli e viziarli: solo un bene apparente (non il vero bene del bambino)<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<h3><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">All&#8217;interno della famiglia<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">\u00a0Un bambino <\/span><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">\u00e8\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/1tObA7Aj3ns\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">viziato:<\/span><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Con elogi sproporzionati, indebiti o molto frequenti.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Con indulgenza e condiscendenza verso i loro capricci.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Con concessioni che contraddicono le regole domestiche o una chiara istruzione precedente.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">\u00c8 anche maleducato:<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Spesso rendendolo il centro dell&#8217;interesse di tutti.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">E lasciare che sia lui a prendere le decisioni familiari.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-435e11f elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"435e11f\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-25 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-2f25aa0\" data-id=\"2f25aa0\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e3dfa4e elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"e3dfa4e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-143181 alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/querer-bien-su-bien-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"684\" height=\"495\" srcset=\"https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/querer-bien-su-bien-1.jpg 684w, https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/querer-bien-su-bien-1-300x217.jpg 300w, https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/querer-bien-su-bien-1-500x362.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 684px) 100vw, 684px\" \/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-2db03d8 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"2db03d8\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-25e2835\" data-id=\"25e2835\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1e77c22 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1e77c22\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Una confusione comune<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Anche se a prima vista potrebbe non essere facile capirlo, ci sbagliamo su cosa\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/yU3xmkV-RDw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">sia il vero amore:<\/span><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">In tutti questi casi dimentichiamo il\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/7cAVXzMeoks\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">vero bene del bambino,<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/a><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> \u00a0ci\u00f2 che lo aiuta a crescere e a perfezionarsi, cio\u00e8 a preoccuparsi pi\u00f9 degli altri che di s\u00e9 stesso.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">E ci lasciamo trasportare dall&#8217;attrazione di\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">beni apparentemente immediati ma falsi<\/span><\/span><\/strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">:<\/span><\/span>\n<ul>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">facendolo\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/XOIQVrxpDr0\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">sentire bene\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/a><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> (cedendo a una forma di narcisismo molto attuale), invece di cercare di renderlo\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">una brava persona;<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/li>\n<li><em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">sentirci bene con<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> \u00a0noi stessi, per non contraddirlo, anche se sarebbe la cosa migliore per lui;<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">lasciarci sopraffare dalla <\/span><\/span><\/strong><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">\u00a0comodit\u00e0<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> \u00a0e continuare tranquillamente a svolgere i nostri compiti, invece di prenderci cura del vero benessere del bambino.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1cb8804 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1cb8804\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Un bambino \u00e8 viziato quando <\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">il suo bene viene confuso con i suoi desideri <\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">, o quando il suo vero bene viene sostituito con il nostro bene.<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-a9eac7e elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"a9eac7e\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-8d90ee5\" data-id=\"8d90ee5\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f11ea19 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f11ea19\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3 class=\"LTt2Ap\"><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Quando \u201cesci\u201d<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Inoltre, un bambino circondato da eccessive attenzioni e concessioni indesiderate, una volta fuori dall&#8217;ambiente familiare, diventer\u00e0:<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Se hai un temperamento debole, sei una\u00a0 persona <\/span><\/span><em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">timida<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> \u00a0che non riesce a cavarsela da sola.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Se invece ha un temperamento forte, diventer\u00e0\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">egoista,<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> \u00a0capace di servire e approfittare degli altri&#8230; o di calpestarli (di nuovo, narcisismo, cos\u00ec comune oggigiorno).<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-61858b9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"61858b9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Un\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/edufamilia.com\/curso-el-verdadero-rostro-del-amor\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">amore mal indirizzato<\/span><\/span><\/a><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> \u00a0porta a viziare i figli. <\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Da qui la necessit\u00e0 di imparare ad amarli, <\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">sforzandosi di <\/span><\/span><\/strong><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">\u00a0desiderare con efficacia\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/edufamilia.com\/2-amor-real-a-cada-hijo-2\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">il vero bene del bambino.<\/span><\/span><\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-5e3abae elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"5e3abae\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-66 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-e32d265\" data-id=\"e32d265\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-93aa643 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"93aa643\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-143185 alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/querer-bien-su-bien-1-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"476\" height=\"476\" srcset=\"https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/querer-bien-su-bien-1-1.jpg 476w, https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/querer-bien-su-bien-1-1-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/querer-bien-su-bien-1-1-100x100.jpg?crop=1 100w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 476px) 100vw, 476px\" \/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-b351040 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"b351040\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-5359d1c\" data-id=\"5359d1c\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-26dd4e5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"26dd4e5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Un piccolo tiranno<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<h3><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Il vero bene del bambino = quello di\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/xiLMy3TiYUc\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">tutta la famiglia<\/span><\/span><\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Inoltre, anche all&#8217;interno della famiglia, il bambino pu\u00f2 diventare una specie di tiranno, facendo s\u00ec che gli altri, in particolare la madre e il padre, ruotino attorno a lui.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Non dovremmo permettere ai nostri figli di manipolarci.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Ovviamente per il loro bene, poich\u00e9 \u00e8 contrario alla\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/7cAVXzMeoks\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">dignit\u00e0 della persona.<\/span><\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Anche se non sono pienamente consapevoli di ci\u00f2 che stanno facendo, abbiamo il dovere di avvertirli e di impedirlo.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-79cffb5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"79cffb5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Per il vero bene del bambino, di ognuno di loro, <\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">non dovremmo mai permettere <\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">a un bambino di manipolarci.<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-7c4435f elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"7c4435f\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4f47f65\" data-id=\"4f47f65\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-813af56 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"813af56\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Porre dei limiti al proprio ego, cercando il vero bene del bambino<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Per quanto difficile possa essere, dobbiamo impedire loro di entrare in una spirale di autoaffermazione assoluta e indiscriminata, che diventa tanto pi\u00f9 difficile da correggere quanto pi\u00f9 a lungo le permettiamo di continuare.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">L&#8217;educazione \u00e8 fatta soprattutto di\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/j2Rk6fSJSnY\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">affermazioni:<\/span><\/span><\/a><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> \u00a0coltivare qualit\u00e0, scoprire nuove vie di sviluppo, reali opportunit\u00e0 di dare il meglio di s\u00e9, sguardi, gesti e parole di approvazione e incoraggiamento&#8230;<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">\u2666 Ma questo non significa che a volte dobbiamo alzarci in piedi e dire &#8220;no&#8221;: senza drammi, senza storie, senza perdere il controllo, ma con fermezza, con gentilezza e persino con tenerezza, se necessario, con decisione.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b8b4d6e elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b8b4d6e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Un &#8220;no&#8221;, tanto gentile quanto deciso <\/span><\/span><\/strong><br 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style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Attenzione ai capricci!<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Di fronte ai capricci dei bambini non bisogna cedere:<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">dovremo aspettare che passi il capriccio,<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">senza nervosismo,<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">mantenendo un\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">atteggiamento sereno,<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> \u00a0quasi di disattenzione,<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">e, allo stesso tempo,\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">fermo.<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Anche e soprattutto quando <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">ci<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> &#8220;mettono \u00a0in cattiva luce&#8221; e <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">ci<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> &#8220;fanno \u00a0fare brutta figura&#8221; davanti agli altri (cosa che, senza che ne siano pienamente consapevoli, i nostri figli usano spesso contro di noi quando notano che cediamo ai\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">ricatti<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">).<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Noi\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> non contiamo, non dovremmo contare.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Il vero bene del bambino deve sempre venire prima\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">del nostro<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Di fronte al vero bene del bambino, &#8220;ci\u00f2 che pensano gli altri&#8221; \u00e8 del tutto irrilevante.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Come ho gi\u00e0 sottolineato, l&#8217;attenzione agli altri, il dimenticare se stessi (in questo caso, concentrare tutto il nostro interesse sul\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">vero bene del bambino,<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> \u00a0senza preoccuparci\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">di fare bella figura o cattiva<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">), \u00e8 la regola per eccellenza dell&#8217;educazione e di tutta la vita umana.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c2a8b38 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c2a8b38\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><em><strong><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">Donare agli altri, dimenticando se stessi, <\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">\u00e8 la chiave dell&#8217;istruzione, <\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">della felicit\u00e0\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/a7u0lxULccI\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\">e<\/span><\/span><\/a><br \/>\n<span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit\"> di tutta la vita umana.<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e5635d3 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e5635d3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" 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