A few days ago, I came across an article titled “I am a Woman, Mother and Work Inside and Outside the Home.” I read it with laughter and nods, because, although I am a man, I identified with it. Of course, I don’t do housework in heels or organize meetings with a baby in my arms, but believe me, dads also have epic battles! So, inspired by that multitasking mom, I decided to write my version: that of a man, husband, father, and worker who tries to keep his sanity during the chaos.
First, let’s talk about being a husband. Yes, that role that sometimes takes a backseat between the screams of the children and the bills to pay. My wife is amazing (and no, she’s not looking over my shoulder as I type this), but sometimes I wonder if she knows how much I admire her. Between her work meetings, her impromptu dinners, and her ability to always find the missing sock, I try to do my part. Sometimes that means surprising her with breakfast in bed (even if the toast is a little burnt) or just listening to her after a long day. Because, in the end, marriage is a team, and while we may not always get it perfect, the important thing is to keep trying.
Then there’s the parenting side. This is where things get interesting. If you think waking up a teenager is hard, try explaining to him why he can’t bring his stuffed animal to school. Or worse, try helping him with his math homework without both of you getting frustrated. But you know what? Those moments, while exhausting, are what make it all worth it. Like when my son tells me, “Dad, you’re the best soccer coach… even though you can’t whistle.” Thanks, son, that boosts my self-esteem… a little.
And I can’t forget my role as a worker. There I am the guy who tries to balance the demands of the office with those of the home. Sometimes that means getting the kids to school before an important meeting or answering emails while waiting in line at the grocery store. But you know what? There are also rewarding moments, like when my coworkers ask me how I do it and I reply, “With a lot of patience and a wife who is a superhero.”
After reading that multitasking mom’s article, I realized something important: even though our struggles are different, we are all in the same boat. Whether you are a mom, dad, husband or wife, the important thing is to remember that you are not alone. And that even though some days are chaotic, there is always room for laughter, love and, of course, a good cup of coffee (or a beer, in my case).
So, to all the moms who read that article and to all the dads who are reading this one, remember: heaven already has a crown in store for us… and maybe even an eternal barbecue. 🍺👑
