13 March, 2025

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Friendship: God’s Plan from Genesis to the New Evangelization

Friendship: God's Plan from Genesis to the New Evangelization

Friendship: God’s Plan from Genesis to the New Evangelization

In the book of Genesis, we read that God created man in his image and likeness. He was not content with creating inert or simply animated creatures but wanted someone capable of relating to Him, of being a person, of communicating, and of entering into the dynamic of Trinitarian love. Love, therefore, is the distinctive feature of man, created in the image and likeness of a God who is love.

The account of Genesis, more than a historical or journalistic description, is a wise reflection on the purpose of creation. God first created man to relate to Him, and then created woman, thus establishing conjugal love as a primary expression of divine love. However, even before conjugal love, there is the love of friendship. God made man for friendship with Him, to share, speak, and have intimacy with his Creator.

This intimacy is manifested in the story of Adam and Eve, who walked with God in the Garden of Eden. Although this image is symbolic, it invites us to reflect: what would they talk about with God on those walks? Surely not about superficial topics such as football, politics or cars, but about deep, interior things that give meaning to life. This interior wealth is what distinguishes the human being, created for communion with God.

However, man broke that friendship with God by sinning. But God, in his infinite mercy, did not abandon man. On the contrary, he devised a unique plan to restore that relationship: he became man in Jesus Christ. Jesus came to the world not only to preach and perform miracles, but to establish a personal relationship with every human being. His life was a constant invitation to friendship, from his conversations with Mary Magdalene, Zacchaeus, the woman with a haemorrhage and so many others, to his closeness to the apostles, whom he called friends.

Friendship with God is not something abstract; it is lived in the concrete. Jesus dedicated time to his disciples, taught them, corrected them and showed them the way of love. This personal relationship is the model of evangelization: it is not about mass methods, but about meeting one person at a time, one on one.

Today, in a world marked by individualism and superficiality, authentic friendship is more necessary than ever. Social networks have reduced the concept of friendship to a “like” or a “follower”, but true friendship involves listening, time, attention and dedication. It is in this context that the new evangelization must flourish: not through large campaigns, but through personal relationships that transmit the love of God.

The first Christians evangelized the Roman Empire not with great strategies, but one on one, sharing their experience of faith. Today, the laity are called to be protagonists of this mission, bringing the message of Christ through friendship and the testimony of life.

Friendship, in its deepest sense, is a reflection of the love of God. Listening to others, praying for them, and sharing a word of encouragement are acts of charity that can transform lives. The new evangelization does not depend on great resources, but on the ability to love and be friends in the most authentic sense of the word.

In a world that desperately needs love and meaning, friendship is the “atomic bomb” of faith. As St. Gregory of Nazianzus said about his friendship with St. Basil, true friendship brings us closer to God and makes us saints. This is the great task we have as Christians: to be friends of God and of others, transmitting their love in every encounter, in every word, in every gesture.

Friendship is not just a gift; it is a mission. And in it lies the key to authentic spiritual and evangelizing renewal.

Luis Herrera Campo

Nací en Burgos, donde vivo. Soy sacerdote del Opus Dei.