{"id":83841,"date":"2023-09-19T09:05:18","date_gmt":"2023-09-19T07:05:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/exaudi.org\/?p=83841"},"modified":"2023-09-19T09:09:20","modified_gmt":"2023-09-19T07:09:20","slug":"corregir-senal-de-carino","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/exaudi.org\/es\/corregir-senal-de-carino\/","title":{"rendered":"Corregir, se\u00f1al de cari\u00f1o"},"content":{"rendered":"<audio class=\"wp-audio-shortcode\" id=\"audio-83841-1\" preload=\"none\" style=\"width: 100%;\" controls=\"controls\"><source type=\"audio\/mpeg\" src=\"https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/Corregir.mp3?_=1\" \/><a href=\"https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/Corregir.mp3\">https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/Corregir.mp3<\/a><\/audio>\n<p>Me encontraba considerando el sentido y ubicaci\u00f3n del acto de corregir dentro del \u00e1mbito familiar, y m\u00e1s espec\u00edficamente durante el proceso de crecimiento de los hijos. M\u00e1s a\u00fan, entre las tareas que a los padres nos compete: dar cari\u00f1o y corregir, esta \u00faltima tiene mala \u2018prensa\u2019 y genera mayor desgaste. Dar cari\u00f1o -sin duda- place ofrecerlo y complace recibirlo. Quiere decir, entonces, que el corregir \u00bfes la \u201coveja negra\u201d de los padres? \u00bfTender\u00e1 a extinguirse como parte de la tarea educativa? \u00bfSu valor en el desarrollo de los hijos es limitado por no decir, nulo?<\/p>\n<p>Por estos senderos discurr\u00eda cuando, leyendo el libro de Carlos Llano, \u2018La amistad en la empresa\u2019 (2000), advert\u00ed que el mencionado autor inscrib\u00eda el\u00a0<em>\u2018corregir\u2019<\/em>\u00a0en el marco del amor como d\u00e1diva superior al amor de reciprocidad y al de necesidad. La diferencia sutil, pero a su vez categ\u00f3rica por sus consecuencias, tiene que ver con la forma de querer el bien: lo quiero para m\u00ed; lo quiero para ti en tanto me devuelvas uno igualmente; o quiero el bien para alguien.<\/p>\n<p>Una sonrisa, un beso pueden convivir con la propia complacencia al ofrecerlos, y no tiene que estar mal. Sin embargo, cuando uno corrige lo \u00faltimo que se busca es el\u00a0<em>\u2018pasarla bien\u2019,\u00a0<\/em>tener que soportar un gesto inapropiado, escuchar una impertinencia o tener que sostener una mirada torva o socarrona. En el mejor de los casos, recibir una mirada acogedora y amable como se\u00f1al del poco o ning\u00fan inter\u00e9s de la correcci\u00f3n indicada. Todo ello hace de la correcci\u00f3n un acto de efectivo desprendimiento propio.<\/p>\n<p>La pregunta es \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 se debe asumir los riesgos implicados en la correcci\u00f3n? Porque con ella se busca de modo directo y patente el bien de la otra persona.\u00a0 Al determinar su correspondencia en su mejora o crecimiento no se puede menos que ofrendar un \u2018momento de incomodidad\u2019 en vistas al logro que puede obtenerse.<\/p>\n<p>Tom\u00e1s de Aquino afirma que el amor consiste en querer el bien para alguien; en esta l\u00ednea, la correcci\u00f3n expresa de modo pl\u00e1stico lo que es el amor. Si ese alguien es el propio hijo, el cari\u00f1o paternal no puede renunciar a poner los medios a su alcance para que aquel no se aparque en la median\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>Suele ocurrir que el bien querido no sea comprendido o que para conquistarlo suponga -de parte del hijo- un esfuerzo prolongado en el tiempo. En tal caso, el obsequio del afecto y del cari\u00f1o de parte de los padres ser\u00e1 el catalizador que lo impulsar\u00e1 a seguir adelante. En cambio, los efectos de la dimisi\u00f3n en la tarea de corregir no se disminuyen con el puro afecto y consentimiento.<\/p>\n<p>Dado que el crecimiento personal no es una auto-tarea, exclusiva y cerrada a influencias extr\u00ednsecas, sino que se configura gracias al aporte de los dem\u00e1s y que adem\u00e1s ese crecimiento se va soportando con la incorporaci\u00f3n de bienes, la correcci\u00f3n para quienes tienen el deber de educar es el conducto fundamental por donde discurren precisamente esos bienes y sobre todo el amor invalorable a los hijos.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tom\u00e1s de Aquino: \u00abel amor consiste en querer el bien para alguien\u00bb<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":108,"featured_media":83848,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"inline_featured_image":false,"_wpcom_ai_launchpad_first_post":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[130],"tags":[1761,10098,10096,617,2419,10099,10097],"class_list":["post-83841","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-voces","tag-amor","tag-carlos-llano","tag-corregir","tag-familia","tag-featured","tag-la-amistad-en-la-empresa","tag-santo-tomas"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v28.1 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Corregir, se\u00f1al de cari\u00f1o &#8211; 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