{"id":148991,"date":"2025-12-05T08:30:02","date_gmt":"2025-12-05T07:30:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/exaudi.org\/?p=148991"},"modified":"2025-12-04T10:49:49","modified_gmt":"2025-12-04T09:49:49","slug":"fomentar-cualidades-o-corregir-defectos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/exaudi.org\/es\/fomentar-cualidades-o-corregir-defectos\/","title":{"rendered":"Fomentar cualidades o corregir defectos"},"content":{"rendered":"<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-6a27c22 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"6a27c22\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-cede75d\" data-id=\"cede75d\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f41f7bc elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f41f7bc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong>Normalmente multiplicamos<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>aquello a lo que prestamos atenci\u00f3n,<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>aunque sea con el prop\u00f3sito de corregirlo.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><iframe title=\"Spotify Embed: Fomentar cualidades o corregir defectos\" style=\"border-radius: 12px\" width=\"100%\" height=\"152\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; fullscreen; picture-in-picture\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/embed\/episode\/52cYCBWv0eDfCSRR7K9Mch?si=92ba7b114a29493b&#038;utm_source=oembed\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-5d10f6a elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"5d10f6a\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-785825b\" data-id=\"785825b\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7301b36 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"7301b36\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-148996 alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/defectos-limitaciones-diferencias-8.png?resize=778%2C511&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"778\" height=\"511\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/defectos-limitaciones-diferencias-8.png?w=778&amp;ssl=1 778w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/defectos-limitaciones-diferencias-8.png?resize=300%2C197&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/defectos-limitaciones-diferencias-8.png?resize=770%2C506&amp;ssl=1 770w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/defectos-limitaciones-diferencias-8.png?resize=500%2C328&amp;ssl=1 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 778px) 100vw, 778px\" \/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-5204b64 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"5204b64\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-36ef658\" data-id=\"36ef658\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4ccea05 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"4ccea05\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><strong>Fomentar cualidades, condici\u00f3n de eficacia<\/strong><\/h3>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-88e5fc9 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"88e5fc9\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-70b9c0f\" data-id=\"70b9c0f\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5b28108 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5b28108\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3><strong>Fomentar cualidades\u2026\u00a0<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/edufamilia.com\/15-aceptar-los-defectos-y-limitaciones\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Como ya he comentado,<\/a>\u00a0y pese a que al reflexionar sobre ello a menudo nos puede llagar a parecer obvio,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/1tObA7Aj3ns\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">resulta dif\u00edcil convencerse\u00a0<em>operativamente<\/em>,<\/a>\u00a0en la educaci\u00f3n de nuestros hijos y en el trato con nuestro c\u00f3nyuge, de que\u00a0fomentar cualidades es siempre mucho m\u00e1s rentable que corregir defectos.<\/p>\n<p>Y m\u00e1s todav\u00eda \u2014a\u00f1ado ahora\u2014 de que lo mejor que puede hacerse con los defectos es\u00a0<strong><em>\u00a1ignorarlos!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<h3><strong>\u00bfIgnorar los defectos?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>\u00bfQu\u00e9 es eso de\u00a0<em>ignorar\u00a0<\/em>los defectos de las personas a las que amo? \u00bfC\u00f3mo voy a ayudarles a vencerlos si no los saco a la luz? \u00bfNo significa m\u00e1s bien desentenderme de ellas, no quererlas de veras?<\/p>\n<p>No. Significa empe\u00f1arte en prestar atenci\u00f3n a lo mejor de cada uno, en fomentar cualidades, que es lo aut\u00e9nticamente eficaz.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-efb7637 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"efb7637\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong>Lo mejor que puede hacerse con los defectos es<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>\u00a1ignorarlos!,<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>\u00a1no prestarles la menor atenci\u00f3n!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-9f1055f elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"9f1055f\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-cab9b2e\" data-id=\"cab9b2e\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-45da1bb elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"45da1bb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><strong>Comprobaci\u00f3n experimental<\/strong><\/h3>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-5068199 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"5068199\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-58d4b9b\" data-id=\"58d4b9b\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5f6ce2a elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"5f6ce2a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><strong>\u00bfCorregir defectos o fomentar cualidades?: primer experimento<\/strong><\/h3>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-831e350 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"831e350\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-30bf7bd\" data-id=\"30bf7bd\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6420f31 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6420f31\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p>Para los m\u00e1s recalcitrantes, me limito a transcribir,\u00a0<em>literalmente<\/em>, la primera parte del experimento que recoge\u00a0<strong>Elisabeth Lukas<\/strong>\u00a0(en\u00a0<em>Equilibrio y curaci\u00f3n a trav\u00e9s de la logoterapia<\/em>. Barcelona: Paid\u00f3s, 2004, pp. 55-57).<\/p>\n<p>Estas son sus palabras:<\/p>\n<p>\u00abLa elecci\u00f3n de a qu\u00e9 prestamos preferentemente nuestra atenci\u00f3n es un acto del que dependen muchas cosas, tal como se demuestra en el peque\u00f1o experimento de la psicolog\u00eda conductista que presentamos a continuaci\u00f3n:<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-5805966 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"5805966\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-82be7ba\" data-id=\"82be7ba\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6cc8f56 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6cc8f56\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3><strong>Comienza el experimento<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p class=\"LPrNorm\">\u201cEran las 9:20 de la ma\u00f1ana en una clase de ni\u00f1os de ense\u00f1anza primaria; cuarenta y ocho alumnos y dos profesores. El aula dispon\u00eda de dos espacios con una pared corredera en medio. Las mesas estaban distribuidas en seis grupos de ocho ni\u00f1os cada uno. Los alumnos hab\u00edan recibido unos deberes, que deb\u00edan realizar en su sitio, mientras los dos profesores, j\u00f3venes y capacitados, ense\u00f1aban a leer por separado en grupos reducidos.<\/p>\n<p class=\"LPrNorm\">Los observadores entraban en el aula, se sentaban y, durante los veinte minutos siguientes, iban anotando, a intervalos de diez segundos, el n\u00famero de ni\u00f1os que no estaban en su sitio. El estudio se prolong\u00f3 durante seis d\u00edas. Los observadores tambi\u00e9n anotaban la frecuencia con que los profesores ped\u00edan a los ni\u00f1os que se sentaran o que volvieran a su sitio.<\/p>\n<p class=\"LPrNorm\">Durante estos primeros seis d\u00edas, se registraron tres ni\u00f1os alejados de su silla cada diez segundos, mientras que los profesores dijeron \u2018sentaos\u2019 unas siete veces durante los veinte minutos de observaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-76e4c5e elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"76e4c5e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong>Siete advertencias,<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>tres infracciones.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-b1df954 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"b1df954\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-7ff85ca\" data-id=\"7ff85ca\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e72bf45 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e72bf45\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3><strong>Cambio de rumbo<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Entonces ocurri\u00f3 algo sorprendente.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Se pidi\u00f3 a los profesores que dijeran \u2018sentaos\u2019 a los ni\u00f1os con m\u00e1s frecuencia.<\/li>\n<li>Durante los doce d\u00edas siguientes, los maestros dijeron 27,5 veces \u2018sentaos\u2019 en cada intervalo de veinte minutos, y hubo m\u00e1s ni\u00f1os levantados (una media de 4,5 cada diez segundos).<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-bbcb444 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"bbcb444\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong>Veintisiete advertencias \u00aby media\u00bb,<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>cuatro infracciones \u00aby media\u00bb.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-8b1cdef elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"8b1cdef\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-5c6c953\" data-id=\"5c6c953\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4d3394f elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"4d3394f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-148999 alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/fomentar-cualidades-o-corregir-defectos-1.png?resize=732%2C487&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"732\" height=\"487\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/fomentar-cualidades-o-corregir-defectos-1.png?w=732&amp;ssl=1 732w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/fomentar-cualidades-o-corregir-defectos-1.png?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/fomentar-cualidades-o-corregir-defectos-1.png?resize=360%2C240&amp;ssl=1 360w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/fomentar-cualidades-o-corregir-defectos-1.png?resize=500%2C333&amp;ssl=1 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 732px) 100vw, 732px\" \/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-b9ccc3b elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"b9ccc3b\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-5f03316\" data-id=\"5f03316\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d42c8c6 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"d42c8c6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3>Nuevo cambio de sentido<\/h3>\n<p>Hicimos otra prueba.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Durante los ocho d\u00edas siguientes, los profesores volvieron a decir solo 7 veces \u2018sentaos\u2019 en los veinte minutos [fomentar cualidades].<\/li>\n<li>La cantidad de alumnos que abandonaros su silla volvi\u00f3 a la media de tres cada diez segundos.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8d2f431 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"8d2f431\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong>Siete advertencias,<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>tres infracciones.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-14ec2f4 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"14ec2f4\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-311422f\" data-id=\"311422f\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ccb0e9d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"ccb0e9d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3><strong>Una nueva inversi\u00f3n de ruta<\/strong><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Entonces, volvimos a pedir a los profesores que dijeran \u2018sentaos\u2019 m\u00e1s a menudo (28 veces en veinte minutos).<\/li>\n<li>Los ni\u00f1os volvieron a levantarse otra vez con m\u00e1s frecuencia, 4 veces cada diez segundos.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-57368d1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"57368d1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong>Veintiocho advertencias,<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>cuatro infracciones.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-4d8ec10 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"4d8ec10\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-2c804c7\" data-id=\"2c804c7\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e115133 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"e115133\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-149002 alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/defectos-limitaciones-diferencias.jpg?resize=382%2C508&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"382\" height=\"508\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/defectos-limitaciones-diferencias.jpg?w=382&amp;ssl=1 382w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/defectos-limitaciones-diferencias.jpg?resize=226%2C300&amp;ssl=1 226w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 382px) 100vw, 382px\" \/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-923f180\" data-id=\"923f180\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1ec89c4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1ec89c4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3><strong>Comprobaci\u00f3n definitiva: la eficacia de fomentar cualidades<\/strong><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Finalmente, pedimos a los profesores que se abstuvieran completamente de decir \u2018sentaos\u2019 [\u00a1fomentar cualidades!]<\/li>\n<li>y, en su lugar, elogiaran el hecho de trabajar y quedarse sentado.<\/li>\n<li>Lo hicieron bien, y menos de dos ni\u00f1os se levantaron cada diez segundos (la cifra m\u00e1s baja de todas las observaciones).\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-65af191 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"65af191\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong>Ninguna advertencia<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>(solo elogios),<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>solo dos infracciones<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>(el menor n\u00famero<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>en absoluto).<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-1cdda7f elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"1cdda7f\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-867ab4f\" data-id=\"867ab4f\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d8a8491 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"d8a8491\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong>M\u00e1s correcciones-advertencias, m\u00e1s infracciones.<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>Menos correcciones-advertencias, menos infracciones.<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>Elogios justificados, \u00a1la mejor conducta!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-7b6ae69 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"7b6ae69\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-c22b54e\" data-id=\"c22b54e\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8446907 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"8446907\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><strong>\u00bfCorregir defectos o fomentar cualidades?: segundo experimento<\/strong><\/h3>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-470a72b elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"470a72b\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-48abb32\" data-id=\"48abb32\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-10bbe43 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"10bbe43\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p>No contentos con esta primera comprobaci\u00f3n experimental, los autores de la prueba quisieron reforzarla.<\/p>\n<p>De nuevo lo cuenta\u00a0<em><strong>Lukas,<\/strong><\/em>\u00a0cuyas palabras transcribo tambi\u00e9n de manera literal:<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-fe63027 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"fe63027\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4f3ceac\" data-id=\"4f3ceac\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b1d5940 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b1d5940\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3><strong>Desarrollo<\/strong><\/h3>\n<h3><strong>El refuerzo de lo negativo<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p class=\"LPrNorm\">\u00abVeamos cu\u00e1nto se puede reforzar lo negativo si solo nos fijamos en ello:<\/p>\n<p class=\"LPrNorm\">\u201cEn un experimento, transformamos una clase \u2018buena\u2019 en una clase \u2018mala\u2019 por unas semanas. Sugerimos al profesor que\u00a0<em><strong>no<\/strong>\u00a0elogiara m\u00e1s a sus alumnos\u00a0<strong>[no<\/strong>\u00a0fomentar cualidades].<\/em>\u00a0Cuando dej\u00f3 de elogiarlos, la conducta perturbadora no deseada aument\u00f3 de un 8,7% a un 25,5%. El profesor reprob\u00f3 el mal comportamiento y se abstuvo de elogiar [fomentar cualidades] la conducta de los ni\u00f1os que estaban haciendo sus deberes.<\/p>\n<p class=\"LPrNorm\">Cuando pedimos al profesor que, en lugar de 5 veces en veinte minutos, reprobara a sus alumnos 16 veces en veinte minutos, la conducta perturbadora aument\u00f3 todav\u00eda m\u00e1s. Subi\u00f3 hasta una media de 31,2% y se mantuvo durante unos d\u00edas por encima del 50%.<\/p>\n<p class=\"LPrNorm\">La mala conducta a\u00fan se acentu\u00f3 m\u00e1s por la atenci\u00f3n que se le prestaba a la misma.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>La eficacia del elogio<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p class=\"LPrNorm\">Cuando los ni\u00f1os volvieron a ser elogiados [fomentar cualidades], retorn\u00f3 la predisposici\u00f3n al trabajo.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-8bd5c2e elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"8bd5c2e\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-33 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-cc9995e\" data-id=\"cc9995e\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-de48084 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"de48084\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-149006 alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Fomentar_cualidades-1-970x323-1.png?resize=970%2C323&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"970\" height=\"323\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Fomentar_cualidades-1-970x323-1.png?w=970&amp;ssl=1 970w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Fomentar_cualidades-1-970x323-1.png?resize=300%2C100&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Fomentar_cualidades-1-970x323-1.png?resize=770%2C256&amp;ssl=1 770w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Fomentar_cualidades-1-970x323-1.png?resize=500%2C166&amp;ssl=1 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 970px) 100vw, 970px\" \/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-1ff6244 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"1ff6244\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-1f3caba\" data-id=\"1f3caba\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3c3bcf3 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3c3bcf3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong>El exceso de advertencias y correcciones\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>transforma un comportamiento positivo<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>en otro reprobable.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-bb60658 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"bb60658\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-12a6893\" data-id=\"12a6893\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a1170e1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"a1170e1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3 class=\"LTt3Ap\"><strong>Moraleja<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>El experimento muestra c\u00f3mo\u00a0<em>una conducta perturbadora<\/em>\u00a0no deseada de un grupo de ni\u00f1os\u00a0<em>puede aumentar<\/em>, en pocas semanas, de un 8,7% a la alarmante cifra de 50%.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a1Y\u00a0<em>solo con la atenci\u00f3n que se presta a esta conducta<\/em>!\u00bb<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-17eddd4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"17eddd4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong>Una conducta perturbadora aumenta<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>por el solo hecho de prestarle atenci\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-082a069 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"082a069\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-ad271b7\" data-id=\"ad271b7\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e7e0f29 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"e7e0f29\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><strong>Ense\u00f1anza: la \u201ctrampa\u201d de la cr\u00edtica<\/strong><\/h3>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-66fad4b elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"66fad4b\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-57c87f1\" data-id=\"57c87f1\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c0fba90 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c0fba90\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3><strong>La cr\u00edtica se realimenta, multiplicando el mal comportamiento<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Lo que qued\u00f3 comprobado en estos experimentos fue la llamada \u201ctrampa de la cr\u00edtica\u201d, es decir, que, en la mayor\u00eda de los casos, lo que hace la cr\u00edtica reforzada es provocar realmente la conducta que se critica.<\/p>\n<p>Y como la conducta perturbadora que se critica se ve reforzada, entonces se critica m\u00e1s todav\u00eda, y esta cr\u00edtica vuelve a reforzar la conducta, a no ser que se reduzca la cr\u00edtica\u00a0<em>a pesar<\/em>\u00a0<em>de<\/em>\u00a0la conducta perturbadora repetida y se dirija la atenci\u00f3n hacia lo positivo [fomentar cualidades], lo cual,\u00a0<em>en la vida real, fuera de un marco experimental,\u00a0<strong>no resulta f\u00e1cil.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-d043db3 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"d043db3\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-74146ae\" data-id=\"74146ae\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3a0cc03 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3a0cc03\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3><strong>Fomentar cualidades\u2026 \u00a1el triunfo definitivo!<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>A ello se a\u00f1ade el agravante de que\u00a0<em>la cr\u00edtica obtiene a menudo un \u00e9xito\u00a0<strong>a corto plazo,<\/strong><\/em>\u00a0que hace olvidar el mecanismo fundamental de la trampa.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed, el \u2018sentaos\u2019 de los profesores en el d\u00eda a d\u00eda escolar antes citado hace que los ni\u00f1os se sienten moment\u00e1neamente, aunque despu\u00e9s se vuelve a levantar con una frecuencia todav\u00eda mayor, y aquel sentarse moment\u00e1neo\u00a0<em>puede crear la\u00a0<strong>ilusi\u00f3n<\/strong>\u00a0de que la cr\u00edtica era correcta y oportuna<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, su efecto final es el contrario, porque obliga a los profesores a fijarse en lo negativo y no en lo positivo, y porque aquello en lo que nos fijamos mentalmente siempre experimenta un refuerzo\u00bb.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4d4b913\" data-id=\"4d4b913\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-46e2200 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"46e2200\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-149010 alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/defectos-limitaciones-diferencias-1.jpg?resize=242%2C431&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"242\" height=\"431\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/defectos-limitaciones-diferencias-1.jpg?w=242&amp;ssl=1 242w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/defectos-limitaciones-diferencias-1.jpg?resize=168%2C300&amp;ssl=1 168w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 242px) 100vw, 242px\" \/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-eb4496c elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"eb4496c\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-d5f136e\" data-id=\"d5f136e\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-592c458 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"592c458\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong>La \u201ctrampa de la cr\u00edtica\u201d:<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>en la mayor\u00eda de los casos, la cr\u00edtica reiterada<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>provoca m\u00e1s y m\u00e1s la conducta que se critica.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-0407a19 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"0407a19\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-7ac9213\" data-id=\"7ac9213\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7b28031 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"7b28031\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><strong>Conclusi\u00f3n<\/strong><\/h3>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-c5a6f9e elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"c5a6f9e\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-45b2dcb\" data-id=\"45b2dcb\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7fbbebf elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7fbbebf\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong>Frente a lo que a menudo se opina,<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>est\u00e1 absolutamente comprobado<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>que fomentar cualidades es mucho m\u00e1s eficaz<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>que intentar eliminar defectos.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-24dad53f elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"24dad53f\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-1c59d449\" data-id=\"1c59d449\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4149fd07 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4149fd07\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p><strong>Tom\u00e1s Melendo<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>Presidente de Edufamilia<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.edufamilia.com\" rel=\"nofollow\">http:\/\/www.edufamilia.com<\/a><\/strong><br 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