{"id":143173,"date":"2025-10-24T09:30:10","date_gmt":"2025-10-24T07:30:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/exaudi.org\/?p=143173"},"modified":"2025-10-23T10:25:08","modified_gmt":"2025-10-23T08:25:08","slug":"querer-el-bien-real-del-hijo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/exaudi.org\/es\/querer-el-bien-real-del-hijo\/","title":{"rendered":"Querer el bien real del hijo"},"content":{"rendered":"<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-20e8bbd elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"20e8bbd\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-64b10fb\" data-id=\"64b10fb\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9042e9a elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"9042e9a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong>\u00a1El bien\u00a0real\u00a0del hijo!:<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>ni solo el bien\u00a0aparente<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>ni tampoco\u00a0nuestro\u00a0bien,<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>\u201cdisfrazado\u201d como suyo.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-cefec5a elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"cefec5a\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-26784ee\" data-id=\"26784ee\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e3e52f3 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e3e52f3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3><strong>Consentirlos y malcriarlos: el bien solo aparente (no el bien real del hijo)<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><iframe title=\"Spotify Embed: Querer el bien real del hijo\" style=\"border-radius: 12px\" width=\"100%\" height=\"152\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; fullscreen; picture-in-picture\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/embed\/episode\/2rox6ZuPlDbKRuJzyAd5K6?si=1824e444233448fc&#038;utm_source=oembed\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h3><strong>En el seno de la familia<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Se\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/1tObA7Aj3ns\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">malcr\u00eda<\/a>\u00a0a un ni\u00f1o:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Con desproporcionadas, indebidas o muy frecuentes alabanzas.<\/li>\n<li>Con indulgencia y condescendencia respecto a sus antojos.<\/li>\n<li>Con concesiones que contradicen las normas del hogar\u00a0o una clara indicaci\u00f3n previa.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Se lo maleduca tambi\u00e9n:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Convirti\u00e9ndolo a menudo en el centro del inter\u00e9s de todos.<\/li>\n<li>Y dejando que sea \u00e9l quien determine las decisiones familiares.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-435e11f elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"435e11f\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-25 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-2f25aa0\" data-id=\"2f25aa0\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e3dfa4e elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"e3dfa4e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-143179 alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/querer-bien-su-bien-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"684\" height=\"495\" srcset=\"https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/querer-bien-su-bien-1.jpg 684w, https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/querer-bien-su-bien-1-300x217.jpg 300w, https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/querer-bien-su-bien-1-500x362.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 684px) 100vw, 684px\" \/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-2db03d8 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"2db03d8\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-25e2835\" data-id=\"25e2835\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1e77c22 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1e77c22\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3><strong>Una confusi\u00f3n frecuente<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Aunque no resulte f\u00e1cil de entender a primera vista, estamos equivoc\u00e1ndonos respecto a lo que es\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/yU3xmkV-RDw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">el amor aut\u00e9ntico:<\/a><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>En todos estos casos nos olvidamos del bien <a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/7cAVXzMeoks\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>real del hijo,<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0de lo que le ayuda a crecer y perfeccionarse, es decir,\u00a0 a estar m\u00e1s pendiente de los dem\u00e1s que de s\u00ed mismo.<\/li>\n<li>Y nos dejamos llevar por el atractivo de <strong>bienes aparentes<\/strong>\u00a0inmediatos pero falsos:\n<ul>\n<li>hacer que <a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/XOIQVrxpDr0\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em><strong>se sienta bien\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><\/a>(cediendo a un modo muy actual de narcisismo), en lugar de buscar que\u00a0<em><strong>sea buena persona;<\/strong><\/em><\/li>\n<li><em><strong>sentirnos bien<\/strong><\/em>\u00a0nosotros mismos, por no llevarle la contraria, pese a que eso ser\u00eda lo mejor para \u00e9l;<\/li>\n<li><em><strong>dejarnos vencer por la<\/strong><strong>\u00a0comodidad<\/strong><\/em>\u00a0y continuar tranquilamente con nuestras tareas, en lugar de ocuparnos del bien real del hijo.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1cb8804 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1cb8804\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong>Se malcr\u00eda a un hijo cuando se confunden<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>su bien y sus antojos<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>o se sustituye el bien real del hijo por nuestro bien.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-a9eac7e elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"a9eac7e\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-8d90ee5\" data-id=\"8d90ee5\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f11ea19 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f11ea19\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3 class=\"LTt2Ap\"><strong>Cuando \u201csalga\u201d al exterior<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Adem\u00e1s, un peque\u00f1o rodeado de excesiva atenci\u00f3n y de concesiones inoportunas, una vez fuera del \u00e1mbito de la familia se convertir\u00e1:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Si posee un temperamento d\u00e9bil, en una persona <em><strong>t\u00edmida<\/strong><\/em>\u00a0e incapaz de desenvolverse por s\u00ed misma.<\/li>\n<li>Si, por el contrario, tiene un fuerte temperamento, se transformar\u00e1 en un <em><strong>ego\u00edsta,<\/strong><\/em>\u00a0capaz de servirse y aprovecharse de los otros\u2026 o de llev\u00e1rselos por delante (de nuevo el narcisismo, hoy tan frecuente).<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-61858b9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"61858b9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong>Un\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/edufamilia.com\/curso-el-verdadero-rostro-del-amor\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">amor equivocado<\/a>\u00a0lleva a malcriar a los hijos.<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>De ah\u00ed la necesidad de aprender a amarlos,<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>esforz\u00e1ndose por<\/strong><strong>\u00a0querer eficazmente\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/edufamilia.com\/2-amor-real-a-cada-hijo-2\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">el bien real del hijo.<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-5e3abae elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"5e3abae\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-66 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-e32d265\" data-id=\"e32d265\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-93aa643 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"93aa643\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-143183 alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/querer-bien-su-bien-1-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"476\" height=\"476\" srcset=\"https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/querer-bien-su-bien-1-1.jpg 476w, https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/querer-bien-su-bien-1-1-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/querer-bien-su-bien-1-1-100x100.jpg?crop=1 100w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 476px) 100vw, 476px\" \/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-b351040 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"b351040\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-5359d1c\" data-id=\"5359d1c\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-26dd4e5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"26dd4e5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3><strong>Un peque\u00f1o tirano<\/strong><\/h3>\n<h3><strong>El bien real del hijo = el de\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/xiLMy3TiYUc\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">toda la familia<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>M\u00e1s a\u00fan, tambi\u00e9n en la propia familia el ni\u00f1o puede transformarse en una especie de tirano, que hace que las dem\u00e1s personas, en particular la madre y el padre, giren a su alrededor.<\/p>\n<p>No deber\u00edamos permitir que nuestros hijos nos manipulen.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Obviamente, por su bien, por cuanto se opone a <a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/7cAVXzMeoks\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">la dignidad de la persona.<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Aunque ellos no son del todo conscientes de lo que hacen, nosotros s\u00ed tenemos el deber de advertirlo y evitarlo.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-79cffb5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"79cffb5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong>Por el bien real del hijo, de cada uno de ellos,<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>nunca deber\u00edamos permitir<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>que un hijo nos manipule.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-7c4435f elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"7c4435f\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4f47f65\" data-id=\"4f47f65\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-813af56 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"813af56\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3><strong>Poner l\u00edmites a su ego, buscando el bien real del hijo<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Por m\u00e1s que nos cueste, hemos de impedir que entren en una espiral creciente de afirmaci\u00f3n absoluta e indiscriminada del propio yo, m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil de corregir cuanto m\u00e1s tiempo la hayamos permitido.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>La educaci\u00f3n\u00a0est\u00e1 compuesta sobre todo de\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/j2Rk6fSJSnY\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">afirmaciones:<\/a>\u00a0fomento de cualidades, descubrimiento de nuevos panoramas de desarrollo, ocasiones reales de dar lo mejor de s\u00ed, miradas, gestos y palabras de aprobaci\u00f3n y aliento\u2026<\/li>\n<li>\u2666\u00a0Pero eso no quita que alguna vez tengamos que\u00a0plantarnos y decir que \u00abno\u00bb:\u00a0sin dramatismos, sin aspavientos, sin perder el control, pero con firmeza, tan amable e incluso tierna, si fuera preciso, como decidida.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b8b4d6e elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b8b4d6e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Un \u00abno\u00bb tan amable como inamovible<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>es, en ocasiones,<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>la mayor manifestaci\u00f3n de amor.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-0970430 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"0970430\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-770bede\" data-id=\"770bede\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-cfb4bb6 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"cfb4bb6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-bf25064 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"bf25064\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-ca9a9f1\" data-id=\"ca9a9f1\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-bb4548e elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"bb4548e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h3><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-143175 alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/10.-Querer-bien-su-bien.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1920\" height=\"1080\" srcset=\"https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/10.-Querer-bien-su-bien.jpg 1920w, https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/10.-Querer-bien-su-bien-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/10.-Querer-bien-su-bien-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/10.-Querer-bien-su-bien-770x433.jpg 770w, https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/10.-Querer-bien-su-bien-1536x864.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/10.-Querer-bien-su-bien-500x281.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1920px) 100vw, 1920px\" \/><\/h3>\n<h3><strong>\u00a1Ojo con los caprichos!<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Frente a los caprichos de los ni\u00f1os, no se debe ceder:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>habr\u00e1 que esperar a que pase la pataleta,<\/li>\n<li>sin nerviosismos,<\/li>\n<li>manteniendo una actitud <em><strong>serena,<\/strong><\/em>\u00a0casi de desatenci\u00f3n,<\/li>\n<li>y, al mismo tiempo, <em><strong>firme.<\/strong><\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Tambi\u00e9n, y sobre todo, cuando \u00ab<em>nos<\/em>\u00a0pongan en evidencia\u00bb y \u00ab<em>nos<\/em>\u00a0hagan quedar mal\u00bb delante de otras personas (algo que, sin ser del todo conscientes, nuestros hijos utilizan frecuentemente en nuestra contra cuando advierten que cedemos ante el\u00a0<em>chantaje<\/em>).<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><em>Nosotros <\/em>no contamos, no deber\u00edamos contar.<\/li>\n<li>El bien real del hijo\u00a0debe ir siempre por delante del\u00a0<em>nuestro<\/em>.<\/li>\n<li>Ante el bien real del hijo, \u00ablo que piensen los dem\u00e1s\u00bb es del todo irrelevante.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Como ya\u00a0apunt\u00e9,\u00a0la atenci\u00f3n a los dem\u00e1s, con olvido de uno mismo (en este caso, centrar todo nuestro inter\u00e9s en\u00a0<em>el bien real del hijo,<\/em>\u00a0sin importarnos\u00a0<em>quedar bien o mal<\/em>), es la regla por excelencia de la educaci\u00f3n y de toda la vida humana.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c2a8b38 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c2a8b38\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong>La entrega a los dem\u00e1s, con olvido de s\u00ed,<br \/>\nes la clave de la educaci\u00f3n,<br \/>\nde\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/a7u0lxULccI\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">la felicidad<\/a><br \/>\ny de toda la vida humana.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e5635d3 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e5635d3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p><em>(Continuar\u00e1)<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Tom\u00e1s Melendo<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>Presidente de Edufamilia<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><a 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