{"id":107516,"date":"2024-09-06T09:00:57","date_gmt":"2024-09-06T07:00:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/exaudi.org\/?p=107516"},"modified":"2024-09-05T09:30:57","modified_gmt":"2024-09-05T07:30:57","slug":"la-formacion-del-caracter","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/exaudi.org\/es\/la-formacion-del-caracter\/","title":{"rendered":"La formaci\u00f3n del car\u00e1cter"},"content":{"rendered":"<audio class=\"wp-audio-shortcode\" id=\"audio-107516-1\" preload=\"none\" style=\"width: 100%;\" controls=\"controls\"><source type=\"audio\/mpeg\" src=\"https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/La-formacion-del-caracter.mp3?_=1\" \/><a href=\"https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/La-formacion-del-caracter.mp3\">https:\/\/exaudi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/La-formacion-del-caracter.mp3<\/a><\/audio>\n<p>Recuerdo un partido de f\u00fatbol en el que se defin\u00eda el primer puesto. Los jugadores de 12 a\u00f1os, apuraron una justa emocionante e intensa en pos de alzarse con la victoria que es esquiva para un equipo y corona para el otro. Finalizado el partido, llam\u00f3 mi atenci\u00f3n el marcado contraste en las expresiones de los ni\u00f1os. Entre los perdedores, la tristeza se apodero de sus rostros, las l\u00e1grimas corr\u00edan sin rubor por sus mejillas, las miradas clavadas en el piso conten\u00edan rabia y frustraci\u00f3n. Los pap\u00e1s se desviv\u00edan en consolarlos sin \u00e9xito: sus hijos abstra\u00eddos rumiaban el sabor agrio de la derrota. Mientras que los vencedores expresaban radiantes &#8211; sin l\u00edmites ni formas- su triunfo. Los gritos, los abrazos y los saltos entrelazados direccionaban la imaginaci\u00f3n hacia un escenario irreal: la final de un mundial.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 la desbocada reacci\u00f3n de esos ni\u00f1os?\u00a0 \u00bfEs solo cuando pierden o ganan en el f\u00fatbol?\u00a0 \u00bfQu\u00e9 tramo de la educaci\u00f3n descuidamos los padres y los maestros? \u00bfEn el orden y en la jerarqu\u00eda de los bienes a alcanzar? \u00bfEn la formaci\u00f3n de un car\u00e1cter d\u00e9bil a fuerza de conceder, dar y aprobar sin criterios ni l\u00edmites? La escuela y la familia comparten roles estelares en la gran tarea de encauzar la afectividad de los ni\u00f1os y j\u00f3venes.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfQu\u00e9 debe procurar evitar la escuela? La blandura en la did\u00e1ctica, que no es otra cosa que desterrar la idea de que en la ense\u00f1anza debe primar el entretenimiento, que el ni\u00f1o <em>\u2018la pase bien\u2019<\/em> en el aula. Objetivo que se consigue \u2013 no sin el desgaste del docente \u2013 con im\u00e1genes multicolores, con contenidos que demanden un trabajo intelectual exiguo, consintiendo disrupciones para evitar las \u2018malas caras\u2019 y poniendo al voto las actividades a realizarse. El sentido com\u00fan nos advierte que la actividad intelectual \u2013 acondicionada a la edad del alumno \u2013 es atractivamente exigente, requiere de unas condiciones m\u00ednimas para su ejercicio y de una did\u00e1ctica que lo estimule. Aprender demanda esfuerzo, estudio y trabajo constante y tesonero. Pero si al alumno se le hace creer que puede aprender sorteando esos h\u00e1bitos, la frustraci\u00f3n o la ira se incubar\u00e1n en \u00e9l ante un desaprobado. El volver a la pedagog\u00eda del esfuerzo debe ser una victoria que las escuelas le arrebaten a quienes pretenden medrar con la formaci\u00f3n de meros consumidores.<\/p>\n<p>Por su parte \u00bfQu\u00e9 deben evitar los padres? Ser permisivos. Tener en claro que el hijo no es quien gobierna en la casa. Cuando mucho se le consiente, aprender\u00e1 que solo tiene derechos y no deberes. Si no se le pone l\u00edmites y los padres intentan resolver por \u00e9l sus tareas y obligaciones \u00bfc\u00f3mo se le forma en la responsabilidad y en honrar sus compromisos? Si no se le ense\u00f1a que el esfuerzo es necesario para conseguir las metas, se le deja librado a su suerte cuando fracasa. Cuando se es permisivo, el hijo no podr\u00e1 distinguir entre lo bueno y lo malo: todo tendr\u00e1 el mismo valor. Si todo vale igual, qu\u00e9 dif\u00edcil es poder elegir, cuando esto ocurre de alg\u00fan modo los padres son causantes de esa incapacidad para decidir.<\/p>\n<p>Finalmente, tanto la blandura did\u00e1ctica como el permisivismo en el hogar no promueven el dominio de s\u00ed mismo, ni el adecuado ejercicio de la libertad, m\u00e1s bien son proclives a estimular el desborde emocional del ni\u00f1o\u2026 sea que gane o pierda su equipo.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Volver a la pedagog\u00eda del esfuerzo<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":108,"featured_media":107517,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_crdt_document":"","inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[130],"tags":[23343,20827,23348,23349,10629,1854,20817,7768,10221,23344,23347,23346,23345,796,4953],"class_list":["post-107516","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-voces","tag-caracter","tag-desarrollo-emocional","tag-didactica","tag-disciplina","tag-edistio-camere","tag-educacion","tag-educacion-infantil","tag-ensenanza","tag-esfuerzo","tag-formacion-del-caracter","tag-limites-en-la-educacion","tag-padres-y-maestros","tag-pedagogia-del-esfuerzo","tag-responsabilidad","tag-trending-es"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.3 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>La formaci\u00f3n del car\u00e1cter &#8211; 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