Today we delve into a topic of current and emotional relevance: divorce. Throughout my life, I have addressed multiple aspects of marriage: dialogue, unity, intimacy, and the importance of forgiveness. However, today is the time to reflect on divorce and its impact on our lives and society.
The Law of Divorce in the Old Testament
Divorce is not a new concept. In the book of Deuteronomy, Moses mentions that if a man finds “indecency” in his wife, he can write her a certificate of divorce and send her out of his house (Deuteronomy 24:1). This law, although regulated, reflects a harsh reality: divorce was allowed, but women were the most affected, as they were left unprotected and often condemned to a life of loneliness.
The Teaching of Jesus
When Jesus was questioned about marriage and divorce, he answered bluntly: “What God has joined together, let no man separate” (Matthew 19:6). He points out that divorce was permitted because of the hardness of men’s hearts, not because it is the divine will. In other words, marriage is a sacred sacrament that must be protected and valued.
The Current Reality
The approval of divorce in several countries, beginning with Russia after the 1917 revolution and later in California in 1969, reflects a change in social perception. Today, divorce is an accessible option in most societies, but this raises questions about the health of marriage and the reasons behind its increasing breakdown.
The Crisis of Marriage in the Catholic Church
The rise in divorce is also seen in the Catholic Church. Many young people marry without adequate preparation, motivated by superficial reasons or social pressures. Marriage, far from being a sacred contract, becomes a mere formality. The lack of education about the importance of the sacrament of marriage and the commitment it entails is alarming.
The Call to Reflection and Commitment
It is essential that the Church commits to preparing young people for marriage in a serious and profound way. Love, respect and truth are pillars that must be cultivated in every relationship. Marriage can be a difficult path, but it is also one of the most enriching experiences of life.
In short, divorce is a complex issue that invites us to reflect on our decisions and on the true meaning of marriage. We must remember that God hates divorce, not divorced people. The goal is to promote healthy relationships, based on true love and commitment. May each of us contribute to a world where marriage is valued and respected, and where divorce is not the first option in the face of difficulties.
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